Wire the PatchUpdated events through app_server (#18289)

Wires patch_updated events through app_server. These events are parsed
and streamed while apply_patch is being written by the model. Also adds 500ms of buffering to the patch_updated events in the diff_consumer.

The eventual goal is to use this to display better progress indicators in
the codex app.

codex-rs/tui/src/app/app_server_adapter.rs

@@ -380,6 +380,9 @@ fn server_notification_thread_target(
         ServerNotification::FileChangeOutputDelta(notification) => {
             Some(notification.thread_id.as_str())
         }
+        ServerNotification::FileChangePatchUpdated(notification) => {
+            Some(notification.thread_id.as_str())
+        }
         ServerNotification::ServerRequestResolved(notification) => {
             Some(notification.thread_id.as_str())
         }