feat(app-server): update remote control APIs for better UX (#22877)

## Why
To help improve `codex remote-control` CLI UX which I plan to do in a
followup, this PR adds `server-name` to the various remote control APIs:
- `remoteControl/enable`
- `remoteControl/disable`
- `remoteControl/status/changed`

Also, add a `remoteControl/status/read` API. This will be helpful in the
Codex App.

codex-rs/app-server/src/message_processor.rs

@@ -897,6 +897,10 @@ impl MessageProcessor {
                 .remote_control_processor
                 .disable()
                 .map(|response| Some(response.into())),
+            ClientRequest::RemoteControlStatusRead { .. } => self
+                .remote_control_processor
+                .status_read()
+                .map(|response| Some(response.into())),
             ClientRequest::ConfigRequirementsRead { params: _, .. } => self
                 .config_processor
                 .config_requirements_read()