Avoid cloning deferred TUI lifecycle payloads (#34347)

## What changed

- Move lifecycle and approval payloads into either the interrupt queue or the
  immediate handler instead of cloning them for both branches.
- Borrow MCP elicitation request metadata while constructing the corresponding
  form, and consume apply-patch changes after collecting notification paths.

## Testing

- Add a history replay test confirming deferred MCP start and completion events
  remain FIFO after streaming finishes.

GitOrigin-RevId: 84ed34f6ff173463a1da016dc140405392c0ba45

codex-rs/tui/src/chatwidget/command_lifecycle.rs

@@ -44,10 +44,10 @@ impl ChatWidget {
                 return;
             }
         }
-        let item2 = item.clone();
         self.defer_or_handle(
-            |q| q.push_item_started(item),
-            |s| s.handle_command_execution_started_now(item2),
+            item,
+            InterruptManager::push_item_started,
+            Self::handle_command_execution_started_now,
         );
     }
 
@@ -155,10 +155,10 @@ impl ChatWidget {
                 return;
             }
         }
-        let item2 = item.clone();
         self.defer_or_handle(
-            |q| q.push_item_completed(item),
-            |s| s.handle_command_execution_completed_now(item2),
+            item,
+            InterruptManager::push_item_completed,
+            Self::handle_command_execution_completed_now,
         );
     }