Disallow expect via lints (#865)

Adds `expect()` as a denied lint. Same deal applies with `unwrap()`
where we now need to put `#[expect(...` on ones that we legit want. Took
care to enable `expect()` in test contexts.

# Tests

```
cargo fmt
cargo clippy --all-features --all-targets --no-deps -- -D warnings
cargo test
```

codex-rs/core/tests/live_cli.rs

@@ -1,3 +1,5 @@
+#![expect(clippy::expect_used)]
+
 //! Optional smoke tests that hit the real OpenAI /v1/responses endpoint. They are `#[ignore]` by
 //! default so CI stays deterministic and free. Developers can run them locally with
 //! `cargo test --test live_cli -- --ignored` provided they set a valid `OPENAI_API_KEY`.