Support remote code-mode hosts in app-server (#35098)

## What changed

- Add `--code-mode-host ws://...` and `wss://...` support to `codex app-server`, gated by the `code_mode_host` feature. When omitted, app-server continues to start a local host.
- Share one remote WebSocket connection across the process's threads, using the configured HTTP client's proxy and TLS policy and preserving the existing framed host protocol.
- Reject invalid host URLs, bound WebSocket frame sizes, close connections cleanly, and return an error when a connection exceeds 1,024 pending delegate calls without disconnecting it.

## Testing

- Cover CLI validation, WebSocket protocol execution and shutdown, connection sharing across app-server threads, and delegate-call capacity recovery.

GitOrigin-RevId: 715e82d4d9db1e7e2f91b754a777dcab504e2ae4

codex-rs/app-server/src/in_process.rs

@@ -450,6 +450,7 @@ async fn start_uninitialized(args: InProcessStartArgs) -> IoResult<InProcessClie
                 session_source: args.session_source,
                 auth_manager,
                 installation_id,
+                code_mode_session_provider: None,
                 rpc_transport: AppServerRpcTransport::InProcess,
                 remote_control_handle: None,
                 plugin_startup_tasks: crate::PluginStartupTasks::Start,